Not so fast, Advice King

Before we get to the meat of this, let me take a quick moment to establish that when it comes to Chris Crofton, I am decidedly a fan. His Advice King columns are wonderfully outlandish, his Cold Brew Got Me Like podcast is a hoot, his Twitter is a consistent source of entertainment, and I proudly pre-ordered his book (I even got it signed!). Beyond being a fan, I’d also like to think I consider him an actual friend. I have hung out with him socially many times, he attended my wedding, and I’ve always had a blast. All that is to say, you can be a fan of someone and disagree with them. The following isn’t an indictment of Mr Crofton, I just happen to have a bug in my craw.

So, with that established, the Advice King column from the Nashville Scene entitled “Where’s the Best Place for Live Music in Nashville?” really wound me up. Within the piece, writer Crofton proceeds to tear down Nashville as “not really so much of a music town anymore… It’s more of a ‘hotel town.’ Or a ‘tax shelter.'” That quote is the sub-headline so I’m not mining for hidden sub-context. However, I am calling bullshit.

Let’s set the context, here’s the question posed to the Advice King

I’m going to be in Nashville for my buddy’s wedding, and I was wondering if you had any tips for where to catch the best live music. We don’t want to go where the tourists go. I like all kinds of music, as long as it’s good.
—Chip from Denver

Crofton’s response is hilariously over the top (as any good Advice King response should be) as he laments the impending loss of the Cannery Row complex of venues, the unknown fate of Exit/In and the empty gestures by developers to preserve Nashville history. All of that is somewhat true but overly pessimistic. The Cannery complex announced a new General Manager for the DZL owned facility (who also own Cummins Station, not Thor Equities) and while the article is a bit murky that the existing staff that we all know and love really isn’t involved with the change, it is somewhat hopeful that the future may be in good hands. As for the old Sounds scoreboard over at Nashville Warehouse Co., it would have been destroyed had someone not preserved it. It may not be optimal that it’s in front of Live Nation HQ but isn’t that better than it being destroyed? As for Exit/In, the future is unwritten and we don’t know what AJ Capital is going to do with it. I’m sympathetic to the pessimism around the unlikelihood that Chris and Telisha Cobb will continue to run the space but we simply don’t know.

Over on Crofton’s socials I’ve seen people commenting to the tune of “What a shame, I grew up in those venues!”, “Reading this kills me”, “I moved away months ago, the city is dead.” It all strikes me as a bit over the top. The news of Mercy and Exit/In is decidedly unfortunate but if you’re an out-of-towner looking to experience live music outside of downtown, there are so many phenomenal options. Go see Time Jumpers at 3rd and Lindsley. Go to Motown Monday or Tim Carrol’s Rock n Roll Hour at The 5 Spot. Go see any show at DRKMTTR, The East Room, Springwater, The End, The Basement, Dee’s Lounge. Hit up Rudy’s Jazz Room, swing by Third Man’s Blue Room, see what’s up at Marathon Music Works, The Basement East, Brooklyn Bowl.* Keep an eye on the live music schedules at Grimey’s, The Groove and Vinyl Tap. Maybe you can go check out the brand new venue The Eighth Room? Or, if you do find yourself downtown, see a local show at Slim & Husky’s or the forthcoming Vinyl Lab? Oh yea, there’s also The Ryman, City Winery, The Station Inn and Bluebird Cafe if that’s your thing. I know he dodged answering the question for the purposes of humor but glossing over the real answer paints things as much worse than they actually are.

Look, I get it, The Advice King is confrontational and over the top for the purposes of delightful entertainment. I imbibe in it and consistently enjoy it. I also completely sympathize with the fact that for many of us, Mercy Lounge and Exit/In were a large part of our formative years; seeing bands we love, playing shows with friends and having genuinely irreplaceable memories formed. However, the knee jerk reaction to shit upon the state of things simply because they’re changing is unfair to all of the other great things that are happening. Nashville isn’t dying, it’s evolving. Not everything about that evolution is going to appeal to everyone and not everything is going to be great. Criticism is welcome but let’s not forget to embrace all of the great things that we do have.

I was hesitant to even write this piece because I understand that Advice King’s place in the world is to be a bit of an absurdist antagonist. Arguing with his responses immediately puts you in the fool’s position. Lamenting the comfortable past in favor of the unknown future is natural and valid. My hope is that even as we lose some of the things that have made Nashville special, we can hold on to hope that the new and existing spaces continue to make our city incredibly special. The weight of change can be heavy but I simply hope that we can all hold on to some optimism that the future of the city is still intact and, dare I say, brighter than ever.

* Live Nation does booking at these venues; which is one of Crofton’s additional complaints that the independent nature of Nashville is dying but, frankly, the booking agents at these spots have done a very good job of including local acts on bills.

S01.E03: The Town That Dreaded Sundown

The boys review and discuss Charles B. Pierce’s 1976 film The Town That Dreaded Sundown. Starring Ben Johnson, Andrew Prine and Dawn Wells.


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After the Episode with Jenny Black: Sarah & Cathey

Jenny highlights how rare the love that Sarah & Cathey share is, when the giving and receiving is so intertwined you can’t separate them. Joy talks about her disdain for feeding children and Sarah shares her struggle with having to discipline and we discuss what we do when we get angry.


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301: They’re All A-Sides to Me

First of all, Thank You to everyone that contributed to our absolutely stellar 300th episode. I am indebted to all of the members of the community that sent in their favorites and really doubly-indebted to all of you that listened and helped spread the word. It really was a great episode and if you haven’t heard it yet, go back and give it a listen right when you’re done with this one.

This episode we’ve got sixteen tracks of new local goodness lined up for you. Honestly, we could probably double that if it didn’t seem too much to ask of you as a listener. So, stay tuned for lots of treats coming up.


Find more music from each of our artists linked below and be sure to follow Roscoe Shelton, Namir Blade, Gee Slab, Vera Bloom, Frank Samuel, Rolowhipp, Mike Floss, $avvy, Shvdowboy, Ornament, Josh Rennie-Hynes, Keeps, Great Grand Sun, Soothes, Jerry Roe and Justin Shawn Hobbs for more updates.

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“Main Theme” by Upright T-Rex Music.

Roscoe Shelton
“You Better Take Time”

Namir Blade
“Ride”

Gee Slab
“Soul Snatcher”

Vera Bloom
“Serenity”

Frank Samuel
“I Want to Feel Something”

Rolowhipp
“Raindrops”

Mike Floss
“Born In The Dark”

Savvy
“Fingerprints”

Shvdowboy
“Dreamcast”

Ornament
“Takin Up My Time”

Josh Rennie-Hynes
“Day Rage”

Keeps
“Over Again”

Great Grand Sun
“Superconductors”

Soothes
“Today (Super Garage Edition)”

Jerry Roe
“Multi-Level Honky-Tonk of Despair”

Justin Shawn Hobbs
“Data Corrupter”

Lucy’s Legacy: Talking Lucy’s Record Shop with Mary Mancini

In which we talk with Mary Mancini about the legacy Lucy’s Record Shop, punk and “alternative” music in the Nashville 90s, and the import of all ages venues. This is such a lovely chat, I am so excited for you to listen!

Lucy’s Record Shop Podcast:
https://lucysrecordshop.com/

Lucy Barks Documentary:
https://archive.org/details/LucyBarksADocumentaryByStacyGoldate


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House O’ Pain

This is the Lucy’s origin story. Host and shop owner Mary Mancini sits down with Don & April Kendall of House O’ Pain, also known as the other two “tolerant, accessible adult role model[s]” who ran the place, to talk about how, with a whole lot of love, luck, and perseverance, they turned a small, independent record shop into a safe harbor and an essential destination for local and touring punk and indie bands.

In the summer of 1992 Donnie and April had already been booking all-ages punk shows for a couple of years and had built a loyal following of teenagers hungry for live music and a place to just “be.” Mary had just opened Lucy’s Record Shop to sell 12” dance vinyl and LPs from independent bands to customers hungry for music you couldn’t find anywhere else in town.

A few months later the two worlds would collide when Donnie and April accidentally stumbled onto Lucy’s. Call it fate, call it destiny, call it whatever you want, when the Kendalls walked into that small shop on Church Street, something in the universe clicked into place and forever changed the trajectory of Nashville’s underground music scene – and many, many lives.

Don & April Kendall booked shows, published a ‘zine, and ran a record label all under the umbrella of House O’ Pain. Don played guitar in legendary Nashville punk bands Rednecks In Pain, Fun Girls from Mt. Pilot, and Booby Hatch. Together they own a small business in Nashville and are the proud parents of Samantha, a certified athletic trainer, and Griffin, a member of The United States Marine Corps.


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Music
So I Hear You’re Moving” – Lambchop
Hold A Grudge” – Fun Girls From Mt. Pilot
Jenny’s Little Crisis” – Rednecks In Pain
Tour Song” – Jawbreaker
Link” – Boobyhatch

Additional Links
Brad Talbott
Jim Ridley
A Dog’s Life: The Times of Lucy’s Record Shop,” by Jim Ridley, Nashville Scene, January 29, 1998

Introducing Lucy’s Record Shop (the Podcast Version)

If you’re a native Nashvillian, you likely remember Lucy’s Record Shop; a small but influential record store on Church Ave that was home to a ton of local shows, phenomenal touring acts and in-store performances.

Mary Mancini, founder of Lucy’s Record Shop, has revived the name in the form of a brand new podcast. In the series she’ll be talking with the folks that made Lucy’s so special and influential. I highly recommend you read this entire Tweet thread to give yourself all the context behind the show.

Here’s the show synopsis:

Lucy’s Record Shop (1992-1998) was a fiercely independent record store, all-ages punk club, and tight-knit community of the rebellious, the rejected, the anxious, and their allies. Join shop owner Mary Mancini as she sits down with the folks who made Lucy’s so special and left a lasting mark on the Nashville underground music scene.

We are honored to be a part of the distribution of this new show. You can hear the trailer right here and use the links below to subscribe on your favorite streamer app.

The first episode, released on Saturday, April 23rd – Record Store Day 2022 (naturally), tells the origin story of the Record Shop and how it became a venue thanks to Don & April Kendall. You can hear it here or in the embed below. Be sure to subscribe to the show on your preferred podcast app.

Kevin Guthrie Won’t Tell You He’s an Artist

I talk with artist Kevin Guthrie about his time in Nashville and his development as an artist even though he gets a little weird about accepting the term. His show, A History of Tofu in America, will hang at the Julia Martin Gallery through the end of April 2022.

Within we discuss all sorts of stuff, from his times on the road with Pavement and the Silver Jews to how he became fixated on Tofu. Kevin is an extraordinary dude and this was a super fun chat.


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Lucy’s Record Shop: The Trailer

Thirty years ago in the sleepy southern city of Nashville, TN, Lucy’s Record Shop opened its doors. Named after its friendly shop dog, this fiercely independent record store and all-ages punk club quickly became a tight-knit community of the rebellious, the rejected, the anxious, and their allies.

Join Mary Mancini as she sits down with the bold and creative folks who made Lucy’s so special and left a lasting mark on the Nashville underground music scene.

The Big C, Surrogacy, and Ryan Gosling

Sarah and Cathey, twin sisters, have always had a strong bond but when Sarah was diagnosed with cancer and faced the possibility of not being able to have any more children, Cathey stepped in to offer herself as a surrogate, taking that bond to a place they never imagined.

About our guests:
Sarah & Cathey are twin sisters living in Nashville, Tennessee. Between having full-time jobs, juggling mom-life, and writing, they host a successful podcast called Talk to Me Sister where they discuss important topics for today’s women including marriage, motherhood, health, nutrition, wellness, and more. Their mission is to encourage and empower women while giving their guests a platform to share their own stories of hope. They are advocates for cancer research and women’s health.

Sarah is a writer, artist, and has built her career in the furniture & design industry. Creativity is her outlet and therapy. She is a cancer survivor and advocate. She cherishes time with her family, being outdoors, and supporting moms going through cancer.

Cathey is a Registered Dietitian, mom of two, and she is the founder and CEO of Baby and Me Nutrition where she guides clients in women’s health, fertility, pregnancy, and postpartum. Cathey is obsessed with puppies, Mexican food, warm weather, podcasts, and her sisters.


Photography by Cameron Jones via City Lifestyle.
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300: Community Makes It Go

Every week I strive to put together a playlist of music by Nashville artists that confirms that Nashville is more than country music, more than Music Row, more than singer-songwriters, more than downtown honky tonks and every episode I get confirmation that, yes, absolutely, Nashville music is way more than all of those things. There’s an undeniably rich tapestry of music across every genre imaginable and I absolutely love sharing it here on the show.

For the 300th episode I wanted to do something special. I kept coming back to the idea of the Nashville community and how there’s no single piece of the puzzle that makes Nashville’s music scene so great. Yes, there are a mesmerizing amount of local bands all making fantastic songs but their efforts are augmented by local record stores, local labels, local writers, local DJs, local producers, local promoters, local artists supporting other artists! There’s a giant swirl of *community* helping one another, propping each other up. We Own This Town strives to be a part of that giant mechanism but it doesn’t work without everyone’s absolutely dedicated involvement.

So, for Episode 300 I reached out to some of the community and asked them to pick one of their favorite local tracks. It could be one of their all-time favorites, one of their recent favorites – I left that up to them to decide – just pick a favorite. The results are wonderfully varied, exactly what you’d hope for. You’ve heard many of these tracks on the show before but many of them are brand new to the show as well; just more evidence at exactly how amazing our local scene is.


Find more music from each of our artists linked below and be sure to follow Patrick Rodgers, *repeat repeat, Negro Justice, Caroline Bowman, Six One Tribe, Olivia Ladd, Taylor Cole, Lance Conzett, Larissa Maestro, Wes Davenport of No Country for New Nashville, Villin dot net, Rebecca Delius from Memento Stori, Mary Mancini from Lucy’s Record Shop, Megan Seling from Snack and Destroy, Kathryn Edwards, The Groove Records, Leanne Merritt, Vinyl Tap and maybe even yours truly, Michael Eades for more updates.

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“Main Theme” by Upright T-Rex Music.

Meemaw
“Blue in the Blacklight”

Tristen
“Complex”

Cody Cody Cody
“Devil Be Up”

Alanna Royale
“Fall in Love Again”

Namir Blade
“Stay”

Emily Blue
“See U In My Dreams”

Girlhouse
“concussion”

Casa Castile
“Haunted Ecstasy”

Ponychase
“Parade of Youth”

Jules Paymer
“Fuck My Exes”

Kaby With Brian Brown
“Showstopper”

The Mattoid
“Party Time”

Fun Girls From Mt Pilot
“Hold a Grudge”

Be Your Own Pet
“Super Soaked”

yautja
“A Killing Joke”

Glamper
“Fried Bologna”

Tristen
“Dream Within a Dream”

Penicillin Baby
“Working Man”

The Features
“Thursday”

Heaven Honey – “Grenadine” (Official Video)

If you’re a regular reader of the Nashville Scene (and why wouldn’t you be?), you’ve likely already seen the debut of “Grenadine”, the official video for Heaven Honey’s latest single. However, it really bears repeating that if you haven’t seen it already, you need to partake ASAP.

The black-and-white piece was shot and edited by Hannah Gray Hall with styling from Juniper Jefferies. It is, to put it simply, a work of art. Heaven Honey has a long tradition of successfully partnering with visual artists that push the envelope of her work (see also “Total Abandon” and “Honeydew“) and “Grenadine” continues that practice, leaning further into abstract imagery and metaphor without losing an ounce of captivation.

Heaven Honey has always struck me as a bit of an enigma. The 2020 release of Total Abandon b/w Tommorow I’ll Try came out of nowhere; a fully formed artist with a razor sharp message about societal imbalances, sexuality, romance and a sound that strikes a balance between the melancholy and the darkly empowered. In the ensuring two years, that sharpness has only become more distinct and even more realized. I don’t know how she does it but “Grenadine” continues to push those boundaries and there doesn’t seem to be a misstep in sight. Can’t wait to see what’s next.