But the Gag is the Gag’s Over: Inclusion TN & the Tennessee Titans [TEASER]

The hosts are spilling the hottest tea over on Patreon. Now that their gag orders are lifted, the stories they share about the organizations that exploited them will have you shook. Join the Patreon to hear the full episode from the coffee shop where it all started, Frothy Monkey 12 South.

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A culture podcast by two insufferable queer introverts in the South who really need to know who’s gonna be there before they commit to anything.

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NASCAR Long Weekend: You Could Be a Pit Lizard

After a brief five year hiatus, Hott Minute returns with a 90-minute NASCAR Special. Jamie walks Ashley through her newfound love of the sport; covering the monopolistic corruption, the big personalities, the WAGs drama and the actual enjoyment of the sport. Ashley shares her own newfound loves, including legit country music and curious intrigue around the motorsports as well.

Theme song by Tower Defense.

Artwork by Elizabeth Williams
BG Music by Upright T-Rex Music

Generational BEEF

A Baby Boomer, Gen Xer, Millennial, and Gen Zer walk into a…ring. Well, you can guess how that goes. Join our hosts for deep dive into the second season of Netflix’s hit series, BEEF. Blake and Kashif examine character motivations, wealth inequality, the healthcare system and more. Later, an intergenerational panel takes on some of the themes explored in the show. Who is really to blame for our current economic and political situation? Are Gen Zers returning to a type of traditionalism usually associated with Boomers? Beyond the middle and side part divide, the generations try to find common ground.

Panelists
• Boomer: MAT
• Gen X: Amy Dotson
• Millennial: Kevin Garcia Instagram | Website
• Gen Z: KeShawn Ivory Instagram | Dark Mattering
Dr. Jared Cooney Horvath Testimony on Gen Z
Wealth Distribution Statistics


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In the Way of Johnny Appleseed w/ Isaac Fitzgerald

Isaac Fitzgerald, author of American Rambler: Walking the Trail of Johnny Appleseed (Penguin Random House), stops by the pod to talk about the historic figure of John Champan, Isaac’s own complex familial relationship with the outdoors, faith, and American legends. How did apples become a symbol of Americana? Bars and stadiums, and churches? Isaac’s first time getting ducked, a tradition as American as apple cider.

• Isaac’s: Instagram | Website
Purchase a copy of American Rambler (out May 12!)
Dirtbag, Massachusetts: A Confessional (2022)
Johnny Appleseed
The Epic Romance of Saeed Jones and Isaac Fitzgerald


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A culture podcast by two insufferable queer introverts in the South who really need to know who’s gonna be there before they commit to anything.

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DJ Afrosheen Thinks DJs are Sociologists

On this episode of Who’s Gonna Be There?, Blake and Kashif sit down with DJ Afrosheen, one of the hottest DJs of the queer South, and a name you might recognize from Bonnaroo, SXSW, or opening for Jill Scott. The trio talk about Afrosheen’s journey from studying dance to curating the music for queer people to dance to, and Afrosheen’s commitment to ensuring that everyone (especially Black folks) feel safe in queer spaces. What makes a good DJ? What does it mean for ravers to ‘catch the spirit’? Has dance music gone gospel? Afrosheen joins the hosts for the game.

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• DJ Afrosheen Socials: Instagram | Soundcloud | YouTube | TikTok
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MashUp Nation
Tramaine Hawkins
Albertina Walker


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Figuring It Out For Sonny

We had such a fun time getting to sit down and chat with one of our most seasoned friends from our party days, Meg Perry! She so graciously shares with us everything from her unexpected pregnancy to her traumatic birth story to her divorce and the logistical struggles of coparenting. Sarah ‘s been traveling, Joy needs a new car and Meg is recovering from a case of vertigo. Join us.

About our guest:
Originally from Oklahoma City, Meg Perry is a Nashville-based mom of an 11-year-old son. In 2004, she moved to Nashville with dreams of becoming a singer, gave up on that immediately, spent 15 years teaching Spanish, and somehow ended up in real estate. Things mostly didn’t go as planned — but she loves life and is always trying to figure it out, usually while co-parenting and stressed AF.


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What Exactly is Armageddon?

The US war with Iran brings Armageddon into public conversation, yet again. This time, with some US military leaders allegedly aiming to bring about this endtime battle, while others (Pete Hegseth) warn that Iran is the one desirous of a religious Armageddon. So, what exactly is Armageddon and where does it come from? In this episode, our hosts look at the history of apocalyptic thought, Armageddon, and surrounding ideas such as the Rapture, Great Tribulation, and millennialism. How have evangelical media depictions of these ideas contributed to our current geopolitical situation? A special endtime edition of the game.

Zoroastrianism
John Darby
Clarence Larkin
The Shock Doctrine by Naomi Klein
Millennialism
Left Behind Films
A Thief in the Night
The Rapture Short Film


About the show:
A culture podcast by two insufferable queer introverts in the South who really need to know who’s gonna be there before they commit to anything.

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James Baldwin in Love w/ Nicholas Boggs

Nicholas Boggs, author of the new James Baldwin biography, Baldwin: A Love Story (Farrar, Straus and Giroux), stops by the pod for a conversation on the platonic and romantic love life of the icon. How did Baldwin’s love for men, women, and people square with his love for Country? What James Baldwin did with all his longing. A look at euro-centric beauty standards and unusual paths to self-love. The importance of the archives, and remembering that your favorite bygone writer used toilets, too.

• Nicholas Boggs Socials: Instagram
Baldwin: A Love Story by Nicholas Boggs
2018 Reissue of Little Man, Little Man by James Baldwin
Beauford Delaney
Yoran Cazac
Engin Cezzar
Lucien Happersberger
Bette Davis
Lisa Rinna


About the show:
A culture podcast by two insufferable queer introverts in the South who really need to know who’s gonna be there before they commit to anything.

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The F-use – “Wannabe” (Official Video)

Rock Music has become an incredibly difficult realm to make something interesting. Hard Rock Music even more so. Maybe that’s a heavily subjective take but most of the defining characteristics of the genre require a great finesse not to fall into parody. Making something legitimately boring in rock music is more common than not.

With that in mind, “Wannabe” from The F-use is a rather refreshing example of what still works. The song has relentless energy, strained vocals, and lyrics lambasting the emptiness of poseurs (a topic that could backfire majestically regardless of genre if done poorly). The accompanying video amps up the energy but also cuts through any presumptions that the song is overly serious. Matthew Estevez, The F-use himself, goes through numerous ridiculous costume changes, hams it up delightfully for the camera and has a genuinely good time throughout. It’s incredibly easy to imagine seeing this live and everyone in the audience is both incredibly sweaty and beaming widely as they sing along.

Ironically, a lot of the tropes of rock music end up making the perpetrators look like wannabes, precisely what the F-use is musing on here. Estevez tells me that the song is actually a direct follow-up to the track “Chaser” released a few years; similar vibes, lyrical content and memorable hooks. Let’s hope there’s another entry in this series one day.. I look forward to the Vapid Trilogy.

Why Aren’t We Talking About Touch?

Fun fact: kissing isn’t a universal human behavior, and is only exhibited by about 50% of humans, mostly in the industrialized parts of the world. In this special episode on touch, co-host Blake, a licensed massage therapist and educator, guides us through an exploration of physical touch. What actually happens in our bodies when we touch? Can touch make me more attractive? What’s the correlation between violent crime and touch? Beyond the pale of sexual vs non-sexual touch, and into new expansive language about this experience of healing, communication, and even revolution. A special cuddle edition of the game.

The Ethics of Touch: The Hands-on Practitioner’s Guide to Creating a Professional, Safe, and Enduring Practice (3rd Edition) by Ben Benjamin and Cherie Sohnen-Moe
Touch Matters by Michael Banissy
Touch: The Science of Hand, Heart, and Mind by David J. Linden
The Deepest Sense: A Cultural History of Touch by Constance Classen


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A culture podcast by two insufferable queer introverts in the South who really need to know who’s gonna be there before they commit to anything.

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Dialup Ghost – Donkey Howdy

If the title Donkey Howdy or the wildly colorful distorted cover art doesn’t tip you off, Dialup Ghost is having fun on their fifth full-length. Quite frankly, they’ve always been a band that’s chosen to express themselves as they are rather than posturing to be anything else. The best examples of this from previous records would be the light-hearted-but-dead-serious “Tennessee Senator Marsha Blackburn is a Drug Dealer” and the possibly-most-empowering-and-loving-and-optimistic track “Transphobes and Fascists Hate Our Guts (So What)“? To be clear, Dialup Ghost has plenty of other great songs that aren’t standing up against the injustices of the world, I just think they’re particularly good at it.

On Donkey Howdy, the band embraces a lo-fi aesthetic balanced with consistently grooving drumbeats and driving bass lines with outbursts of deliciously fuzzed-out guitars. The country twinged vocals of Russ Finn lend an air of authenticity on “Bigger Household” – particularly when he sings “Baby, let’s move to the country” complete with a plea to have a multitude of babies. The band ponders the literal Nashville music scene on “Music City Mockingbird,” providing goofy but introspective ruminations about a town that is filled with empty posturing. If you need an entry point to the record, lead single “Soot Sprite” finds the band delivering a frantic pace of excessively upbeat vibes start to finish.

The writeup that accompanies the record states that the band consciously chose to steer towards instrumentation on this record that they had gravitated to in the past. Eschewing mandolin and pedal steel for synthesizers is not an easy choice, but it’s clearly working. They also claim to be embracing their post-punk and garage-pop side over alt-country… but I’d argue it’s been there all along, they’re just setting it free to be it’s truest self.

Think of Astrology as the Ingredients w/Sarah Jane Chapman

Sarah Jane Chapman is a yoga therapist, tarot reader, astrologer, and founder of Be With Your Body, a total embodiment practice. She stops by the pod to tell us what astrology already knew about our present darkness and what we can do about what is to come. To manifest or not to manifest: that is the astrological question. How is tarot a mirror? What does loving your body actually feel like? Sarah joins our hosts for a special tarot edition of the game.

Sarah Jane’s Socials: Instagram | Website
Sarah’s Tarot Deck: Be With Your Body


About the show:
A culture podcast by two insufferable queer introverts in the South who really need to know who’s gonna be there before they commit to anything.

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