DJ Afrosheen Thinks DJs are Sociologists

Posted Thu April 30, 2026 from Who's Gonna Be There?

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On this episode of Who’s Gonna Be There?, Blake and Kashif sit down with DJ Afrosheen, one of the hottest DJs of the queer South, and a name you might recognize from Bonnaroo, SXSW, or opening for Jill Scott. The trio talk about Afrosheen’s journey from studying dance to curating the music for queer people to dance to, and Afrosheen’s commitment to ensuring that everyone (especially Black folks) feel safe in queer spaces. What makes a good DJ? What does it mean for ravers to ‘catch the spirit’? Has dance music gone gospel? Afrosheen joins the hosts for the game.

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Figuring It Out For Sonny

Posted Wed April 22, 2026 from Momcult

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We had such a fun time getting to sit down and chat with one of our most seasoned friends from our party days, Meg Perry! She so graciously shares with us everything from her unexpected pregnancy to her traumatic birth story to her divorce and the logistical struggles of coparenting. Sarah ‘s been traveling, Joy needs a new car and Meg is recovering from a case of vertigo. Join us.

About our guest:
Originally from Oklahoma City, Meg Perry is a Nashville-based mom of an 11-year-old son. In 2004, she moved to Nashville with dreams of becoming a singer, gave up on that immediately, spent 15 years teaching Spanish, and somehow ended up in real estate. Things mostly didn’t go as planned — but she loves life and is always trying to figure it out, usually while co-parenting and stressed AF.

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What Exactly is Armageddon?

Posted Fri April 17, 2026 from Who's Gonna Be There?

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The US war with Iran brings Armageddon into public conversation, yet again. This time, with some US military leaders allegedly aiming to bring about this endtime battle, while others (Pete Hegseth) warn that Iran is the one desirous of a religious Armageddon. So, what exactly is Armageddon and where does it come from? In this episode, our hosts look at the history of apocalyptic thought, Armageddon, and surrounding ideas such as the Rapture, Great Tribulation, and millennialism. How have evangelical media depictions of these ideas contributed to our current geopolitical situation? A special endtime edition of the game.

• Zoroastrianism
• John Darby
• Clarence Larkin
• The Shock Doctrine by Naomi Klein
• Millennialism
• Left Behind Films
• A Thief in the Night
• The Rapture Short Film

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James Baldwin in Love w/ Nicholas Boggs

Posted Thu April 2, 2026 from Who's Gonna Be There?

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Nicholas Boggs, author of the new James Baldwin biography, Baldwin: A Love Story (Farrar, Straus and Giroux), stops by the pod for a conversation on the platonic and romantic love life of the icon. How did Baldwin’s love for men, women, and people square with his love for Country? What James Baldwin did with all his longing. A look at euro-centric beauty standards and unusual paths to self-love. The importance of the archives, and remembering that your favorite bygone writer used toilets, too.

• Nicholas Boggs Socials: Instagram
• Baldwin: A Love Story by Nicholas Boggs
• 2018 Reissue of Little Man, Little Man by James Baldwin
• Beauford Delaney
• Yoran Cazac
• Engin Cezzar
• Lucien Happersberger
• Bette Davis
• Lisa Rinna

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The F-use – “Wannabe” (Official Video)

Posted Fri March 20, 2026

Rock Music has become an incredibly difficult realm to make something interesting. Hard Rock Music even more so. Maybe that’s a heavily subjective take but most of the defining characteristics of the genre require a great finesse not to fall into parody. Making something legitimately boring in rock music is more common than not.

With that in mind, “Wannabe” from The F-use is a rather refreshing example of what still works. The song has relentless energy, strained vocals, and lyrics lambasting the emptiness of poseurs (a topic that could backfire majestically regardless of genre if done poorly). The accompanying video amps up the energy but also cuts through any presumptions that the song is overly serious. Matthew Estevez, The F-use himself, goes through numerous ridiculous costume changes, hams it up delightfully for the camera and has a genuinely good time throughout. It’s incredibly easy to imagine seeing this live and everyone in the audience is both incredibly sweaty and beaming widely as they sing along.

Ironically, a lot of the tropes of rock music end up making the perpetrators look like wannabes, precisely what the F-use is musing on here. Estevez tells me that the song is actually a direct follow-up to the track “Chaser” released a few years; similar vibes, lyrical content and memorable hooks. Let’s hope there’s another entry in this series one day.. I look forward to the Vapid Trilogy.

Why Aren’t We Talking About Touch?

Posted Fri March 20, 2026 from Who's Gonna Be There?

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Fun fact: kissing isn’t a universal human behavior, and is only exhibited by about 50% of humans, mostly in the industrialized parts of the world. In this special episode on touch, co-host Blake, a licensed massage therapist and educator, guides us through an exploration of physical touch. What actually happens in our bodies when we touch? Can touch make me more attractive? What’s the correlation between violent crime and touch? Beyond the pale of sexual vs non-sexual touch, and into new expansive language about this experience of healing, communication, and even revolution. A special cuddle edition of the game.

• The Ethics of Touch: The Hands-on Practitioner’s Guide to Creating a Professional, Safe, and Enduring Practice (3rd Edition) by Ben Benjamin and Cherie Sohnen-Moe
• Touch Matters by Michael Banissy
• Touch: The Science of Hand, Heart, and Mind by David J. Linden
• The Deepest Sense: A Cultural History of Touch by Constance Classen

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Dialup Ghost – Donkey Howdy

Posted Fri March 13, 2026

If the title Donkey Howdy or the wildly colorful distorted cover art doesn’t tip you off, Dialup Ghost is having fun on their fifth full-length. Quite frankly, they’ve always been a band that’s chosen to express themselves as they are rather than posturing to be anything else. The best examples of this from previous records would be the light-hearted-but-dead-serious “Tennessee Senator Marsha Blackburn is a Drug Dealer” and the possibly-most-empowering-and-loving-and-optimistic track “Transphobes and Fascists Hate Our Guts (So What)“? To be clear, Dialup Ghost has plenty of other great songs that aren’t standing up against the injustices of the world, I just think they’re particularly good at it.

On Donkey Howdy, the band embraces a lo-fi aesthetic balanced with consistently grooving drumbeats and driving bass lines with outbursts of deliciously fuzzed-out guitars. The country twinged vocals of Russ Finn lend an air of authenticity on “Bigger Household” – particularly when he sings “Baby, let’s move to the country” complete with a plea to have a multitude of babies. The band ponders the literal Nashville music scene on “Music City Mockingbird,” providing goofy but introspective ruminations about a town that is filled with empty posturing. If you need an entry point to the record, lead single “Soot Sprite” finds the band delivering a frantic pace of excessively upbeat vibes start to finish.

The writeup that accompanies the record states that the band consciously chose to steer towards instrumentation on this record that they had gravitated to in the past. Eschewing mandolin and pedal steel for synthesizers is not an easy choice, but it’s clearly working. They also claim to be embracing their post-punk and garage-pop side over alt-country… but I’d argue it’s been there all along, they’re just setting it free to be it’s truest self.

Think of Astrology as the Ingredients w/Sarah Jane Chapman

Posted Thu March 5, 2026 from Who's Gonna Be There?

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Sarah Jane Chapman is a yoga therapist, tarot reader, astrologer, and founder of Be With Your Body, a total embodiment practice. She stops by the pod to tell us what astrology already knew about our present darkness and what we can do about what is to come. To manifest or not to manifest: that is the astrological question. How is tarot a mirror? What does loving your body actually feel like? Sarah joins our hosts for a special tarot edition of the game.

Sarah Jane’s Socials: Instagram | Website
Sarah’s Tarot Deck: Be With Your Body

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Joy in The Resistance

Posted Wed March 4, 2026 from Momcult

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Joy invites on Activist and OG mom friend, Colleen Weiss, to give us the dose of hope and motivation that we, as mothers, could all use right now. Sarah shares about her magical trip to New Orleans, Joy is applying to high schools and Colleen needs her kids to go to school for at least one full week.

Trigger Warning: We discuss current events including ICE and the Epstein Files.

About our guest: Originally from St. Paul, Minnesota, Colleen moved to Nashville in 2009 by way of Brooklyn, New York. She’s worn many hats over the years, from waiting tables, to custom menswear slinger, to her current role as a real estate agent. Personally knowing the benefits of homeownership, she is particularly passionate about helping first time homebuyers.

After the Covenant shooting in 2023 she began regularly showing up to the state capitol where she learned the ins and outs of TN state politics. Since that time her activism work has grown, most recently with the creation of the Angelic Dissenters podcast. A weekly update on the TN General Assembly and the harmful policies being introduced.

When not yelling in the streets, she can be found at home in East Nashville with her husband and two daughters Mabel and Josie.

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Your Favorite Civil Rights Leader Had Guns Too

Posted Fri February 20, 2026 from Who's Gonna Be There?

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In this season premiere, guns are close to home. Our hosts explore their relationship to bearing arms, and how the respect of that right changes based on who holds the gun. They explore the Black Panther Party for Self-Defense and lesser known armed Black self-defense groups. Who are these new Black Panthers defending against ICE? Was MLK a gun owner? What does it mean to be nonviolent and own a gun? The striking similarity between Freedom Summer and Minneapolis.

• This Nonviolent Stuff’ll Get You Killed by Charles E. Cobb
• Freedom Summer
• Black Lion Party for International Solidarity
• Black Panther Party for Self-Defense
• Too Black on Nonviolence

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Wet Hypnotism & James Baldwin in Love

Posted Thu February 5, 2026 from Who's Gonna Be There?

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In this bonus episode, Blake recounts a wild experience of group hypnotism and an unexpected power differential. Kashif examines James Baldwin’s first three novels, and how, he too, was hypnotized—by love.

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Don’t Wear Pack Hair to a Square Dance

Posted Thu January 22, 2026 from Who's Gonna Be There?

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In this bonus episode, Kashif offers a brief history of beauty supply store extensions, otherwise known as ‘pack hair’. He traces its emergence as a social marker. Moving 18th century England, he examines the parallels betweens wigs and wealth. Blake (an actual square dancing champion), walks us through the architecture and history of square dancing. From France to Henry Ford, he explores the Americanization of the iconic dance, considering more accessible and queer (of course!) models.

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